Overcoming self-doubt: The courage to email strangers
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Summary
A personal essay about overcoming low self-esteem and the fear of reaching out to strangers via email. The author reflects on the internal hesitation, self-doubt, and anxiety that comes with initiating contact with unknown people, and explores how pushing past that fear can lead to meaningful connections and personal growth.
Key quotes
· 3 pulledThe first time I emailed a stranger, I swear my cursor hovered over Send for a full five minutes.
That's the forever curse of low self-esteem. The best and worst-case scenario can never occur, because you've rejected yourself first.
Who knows how the other is going to respond? That's where the rub is, isn't it? The terrifying unknown.
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