The Problem with Being the Easy One
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Maraya Rodostianos
6d agoen
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Tiny BuddhaThe Problem with Being the Easy Onetinybuddha.com“We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others, that in the end we become disguised to ourselves.” ~François de La Rochefoucauld “So, in your relationship, do your partner’s needs always dictate how things go?” My therapist looked at me quizzically after I’d just shared with him that our dinner plans had suddenly changed the night before because my partner was tired from a long day at work, and I just went along with what he needed. He had initiated a night out, I had dressed up and prepared for a restaurant meal, and when I arrived at his place, …
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