A Personal Reflection on Bisexual Identity and the Need for Authentic Representation
By
Rachael Arsenault
Summary
A bisexual woman reflects on her personal journey of coming to terms with her sexuality, noting that a lack of authentic bisexual representation in media made it difficult for her to understand and accept her identity. She contrasts the harmful stereotypes and biphobic jokes she saw growing up with the need for genuine portrayals of bisexual people as ordinary humans. The article appears to be a personal essay tied to Bisexual Awareness Week, offering book recommendations for bi/pan readers.
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I didn't start identifying as bi until I was about 21, and a huge part of the reason why I struggled to figure out my sexuality is because I simply hadn't seen it represented before.
There were biphobic jokes in media, and hypersexual women who were half punchline, half men's fantasy — but there wasn't really any representation of bisexual people as just… people.
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