Advice Column: Atheist struggles with how to respond to 'thoughts and prayers' for ill mother
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R. Eric Thomas
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Summary
A letter to advice columnist Eric from a practicing atheist who is offended when well-meaning people say they will keep his ill mother in their "thoughts and prayers." The writer, raised Catholic but now atheist, believes in allowing everyone their own religious beliefs but finds proselytizing off-limits. He struggles with how to respond to friends and family who offer prayers without seeming unappreciative, seeking advice on how to navigate this sensitive situation.
Key quotes
· 3 pulledI am of the opinion that all should be allowed their own religious beliefs – however, proselytizing is and should be off limits.
As an atheist, I am offended when people say they will keep my mom in their thoughts 'and prayers.'
I sound unappreciative – I'm not at all and try to hint to my friends and family where I stand by replying or even stating upfront…
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