Understanding Adversarial Thinking: Why Everyday Life Doesn't Prepare Us for True Opposition
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Summary
The article explores the concept of adversarial thinking and how most people lack experience with true adversaries in everyday life. The author uses the example of a donut seller as a counterparty rather than a true adversary, highlighting how normal life and single-player video games don't prepare us for genuine adversarial situations where parties have fundamentally opposing goals rather than just negotiating terms.
Key quotes
· 5 pulledOne can get a bit cocky if one picks up their strategic sensibilities from normal life and single-player video games
In the vast majority of situations in my life, I might have at most a counter-party (such as the person trying to sell me donuts)
She wants to sell me a lot of donuts, I don't want very many. She wants to charge me a lot for the donuts, I don't want to pay a lot
So there's some tension there, but it would be wrong to call her 'my adversary'
In the end, we both want me to buy some donuts, we're just arguing
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