The Art of Learning to Like Things: A Method for Self-Discovery
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A baker's-dozen of insight crammed into one ring.
Summary
The article presents a unique hobby of trying to like things you initially dislike as a way to explore human nature and personal growth. The author shares personal experiences, including discovering an appreciation for Michael Jackson in Paris and learning to enjoy classical music, to illustrate how this practice can lead to unexpected enjoyment and self-discovery. The piece argues that disliking things often stems from psychological barriers rather than genuine preference, and that making an effort to appreciate unfamiliar things can expand one's horizons and understanding of oneself.
Key quotes
· 4 pulledTake something you don't like. Try to like it.
The French sure do like Michael Jackson. You know what? They're right! Michael Jackson is good.
Disliking things is a psychological state, not an aesthetic one.
Making an effort to like things is a way of probing your own nature.
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