Why caregivers often experience relief followed by guilt after a loved one's death
By
LeAnne Gendreau, Amy Amy Cameron O’Rourke, Rhea Rogers, Sondra 'Sam' Cradduck, Katherine Ambrose
Plain bagel done well. Pleasantly substantive.
Summary
The article discusses the complex emotional experience many caregivers face after a loved one dies: feeling relief that the suffering and caregiving burden has ended, followed immediately by guilt for having that relief. Aging Untold experts normalize this conflicting mix of emotions, explaining it is a natural and common response for exhausted caregivers who have worked hard caring for someone who is dying.
Key quotes
· 3 pulledIt's such a hard thing to say, but you know, you've been taking care of somebody that is dying and you're tired.
You've worked hard and you're relieved that they're gone.
And then you immediately feel guilty for having that thought, even though it's natural and normal.
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